Hello. I'm a friendly, gentle, decent, intelligent, chatty, outgoing per, originally from Northern Ireland though trying to lose the accent, am half English. I always tell people my life only began when I left Belfast, which was not a nice place to be. Want to find a friend to meet for coffee. I'm caring, there is absolutely nothing I would not do for a friend. Not a smoker, never smoked. And not a drinker, just occasional glass of wine in company. I am caring and respectful with good manners at all times. Hugs, kisses and cuddles (lots and lots) mean the world to me, not had much in my life and hey none all this year 2016. I have experienced a lot of violence in my past, and a lot of intimidation and terror in Ireland, a lot of unhappiness and loneliness, BUT it just made me a more caring and more gentle per who lives for today and the future. There are good people in the world, you just gotta find them. Martin

My Ideal Person Someone loving and tackile, sensual would be unbelievably brilliant. But equally happy to find a good friend. My ex of 18 months, split in Jan, was just cold and uncaring.