Married/open straight, man seeking a cool and similarly fun loving woman to fill the position of girlfriend. Prerequisites: Either single and ok that I have an amazing wife, or in an open relationship. I am very well educated, professional, friendly and easy to get along with. My wife and I both have a powerful sense of adventure and aren't looking into going separate ways, but rather opening up our intimacy that we cherish, to involve others of a similar ilk. About me/us: We love being in nature and go out often. Neither of us buys into the whole consumerism mentality of possessions... and that includes our relationships. We strive for conscious living, compassion over greed, kindness over judgment. We don't need each other's "permission" to see others... We aren't each other's owners! But, we create a safe space for the other to go and explore and play and be peaceful, knowing that the other is waiting and holding a space in their heart for Us to come back to... We aren't in it just for sex... We can get plenty of that... We expect to fall in love with others... That said, we aren't the butterfly type to flit around from flower to flower thru the fields and glens... We figure that, beside each other (obviously) we have room in our hearts for a few others! I am attracted to women that are HWP. Having said that, it doesn't mean you have to be a fitness nut! Please just show good care for your mileage! ;D I am a non-smoker, am drug and disease-free, and expect the same. I am NOT looking for just a 1 time hook up, or just getting together only for sex. I want to find someone who also enjoys doing things together. From big adventures like going paragliding, bungee jumping or taking a motorcycle trip, to basic things like sharing a meal, talking about the world, or soaking in the sunset together.

My Ideal Person Please be a happy woman with a friendly disposition with a kind and loving heart, a creative sense of fun, compassionate and sensitive to the needs of others, and probably most important, have a powerful sense of adventure! Think The Hobbit but with more women, more sex, and fewer dragons!
Ideally, I'm looking for the elusive female that is also capable of being friends with my wife (or at least respectful, cordial and able for the 3 of us to hang out on occasion.) After all, I am not planning to leave my wife, and want to actually involve her at times. I'm not expecting that all prospective applicants have to be willing to have sex with her, but rather, be secure enough in yourself to at least go for drinks or hang out together on occasion... (The wife actually wants me to find 2 women to keep me busy! I do have a high sex drive!!)
My ideal woman would be my Girlfriend. To me, that means being available and willing to see each other 2-3 times/wk; whether cooking or going out for a meal, seeing a movie, going for a motorcycle ride, giving massages, having great sex, or just running errands together while we talk and share with each other.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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