Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
The AdultFriendFinder Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of AdultFriendFinder. If you have a question to ask, just enter it. Our staff will then review the question and post it below.

Just click the links to give your advice or Add a Question.


want2seemecack 45 M
1  question
get the guy off quicker - 6/13/2008

is it really true that if the guy has his ass played with he will get off quicker? what if they put the finger or whatever in his ass would that make him gay?

14 response(s), 9 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Who pays? - 6/13/2008

If two or more people meet at a hotel/motel who pays for the room? The person who choose the hotel/motel? Split evenly?

9 response(s), 12 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Best way to lose virginity???? - 6/13/2008

I am almost 24 and still a virgin. What is the best way to lose your virginity?

Any ideas, suggestions or tips?

16 response(s), 11 votes
Getting yourself off... - 6/13/2008

This is for the ladies and men. When you are masturbating what enhancers, lotions, oils, lubes, toys, locations seem to get you off the hardest???...

15 response(s), 17 votes
Misbehavn2 55 C
37  questions
hugging - 6/13/2008

so when i meet a woman a hug is the first thing i do i have very long arms and i like to wrap them around a woman when I'm hugging i will pull your whole body too me, my intent is not sexual but i like to let you know you've been hugged, is this not a good thing because i know that i have hugged woman that will stand back and not let me give full hug

9 response(s), 14 votes
EveryNightFever 29 M
2  questions
What is the best method for a guy to use when seeking a couple? - 6/13/2008

Just curious to hear some different opinions, Thanks

10 response(s), 18 votes
woodluv2pleseu2 58 M
88  questions
Open thread - 6/13/2008

I've noticed that the folks here wotk hard to give great advice, good personal opinions and just general good company to those of us who need adult input.







I figure you can use a break so, would you like to call me a name? Would yyou like to state a point? do you have a joke? well maybe not jokes, we could get in trouble for putting them in the wrong place. ...

13 response(s), 24 votes
Threesomes - 6/13/2008

We haven't had a threesome yet, but I was curious as to what kind of person(MFM) you all selected for your first encounter. Was it a friend or a stranger? Will being a little tipsy one evening and fooling around, the misses brought up a name from someone she had the hots for some time ago. She said she would be comfortable with him! What is you advice in said situation?

12 response(s), 8 votes
Just wondering? - 6/13/2008

How many people actually agree with this statement " age and looks don't matter" i've seen this posted in many profiles. (male profiles) and really wonder how can that be? would your really get with just anyone? Call me shallow but i gotta like what I'm fucking.

27 response(s), 28 votes
dental dams... - 6/13/2008

i have HPV (warts) and wonder if any of you have had any experience using a dental dam?? can women really tell what is going on if a guy is doing oral on her thru one of them?? when i looked them up i thought it didn't look like it would be a very pleasureable experience..giving up oral sex is really getting to me..actually giving up all sex is really getting to me..

anybody out there ...

5 response(s), 16 votes
NtrnationalLover 51 M
17  questions
Should I... - 6/13/2008

I met this guy and his wife about 3 yrs ago when I moved to Colorado and we became instant friends. After my divorce, she introduced me to friend of hers who I see from time to time. A couple of weeks ago, they invited me down for a party and it was decided I would spend the night so I wouldn't have to make the long drive home after a night of drinking and partying.

After everyone was ...

10 response(s), 19 votes
rm_chriserin2 42 C
2  questions
Threesomes, how do I make one happen? - 6/13/2008

Is it natural to fear rejection from some one of the same sex when trying to engage in a threesome? I'm so not that confident in the breaking the ice stage of getting to know some one enough to ask that person to join us. The fact that this is something I want for me hasn't givin me the confidence to just walk up to a woman at a party or gathering and say "Hey, want to join me in bed?" I ...

3 response(s), 14 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
HMTL and Borders - I NEED HELP - 6/13/2008

I am familiar with html, but I CAN NOT FOR THE LIFE OF ME, FIGURE OUT HOW TO MAKE BORDERS ON HERE!

Any advice or codes that anyone has to offer would be appreciated.

1 response(s), 6 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
High school fucking & sucking! - 6/13/2008

Were you getting some pussy/dick back in high school?

If so, on a regular basis?

Were ya worth a damn at it?
...

15 response(s), 47 votes
69lickitkissit69 52 M
2  questions
Rimming.......Taboo???Women do you expect it ?? - 6/13/2008

More and more in porn, Rimming seems to be a part of sex.Women, Do we lick it??

15 response(s), 24 votes
rm_blacstaff 42 M
1  question
Is this real? - 6/13/2008

I just want to know if this was a waste of time. I really don't need this site for sex however I would like it to help me find sexual partners that understand my sexuality. So I ask is this site real? Will I really find sex partners on here?

10 response(s), 23 votes
rm_othrwhtmeat 38 M
7  questions
personality type - 6/13/2008

This question is for members who have filled out the personality type part of their profile.

Mine happens to be the Mystic Writer. Normally I don't buy into that sort of thing. But even though I am not passionate about writing, I have been told I am very good at it. And I found I've made quite a few posts, mostly responses, in the short time I've been on this site, and posting was never ...

10 response(s), 22 votes
missing breasts - 6/13/2008

A friend has just lost both breasts to cancer. How would you (both men and women) feel about having sex with her. Please don't bother to tell me about breast reconstruction. For reasons I don't need to go into here, that's not an option.

12 response(s), 16 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Just Curious? Have You Ever Skinny Dipped? - 6/13/2008

I was just wondering how many people have really "ever" skinny dipped with a MOS?

Me? I never have! Yikes!

25 response(s), 23 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
You May Not Realize It, but It's 100% true! - 6/13/2008

This should probably be taped to your bathroom mirror where one could read it every day.

You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.

1. There are at least two people in this world that you would die for.

2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.

3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you.

4. A ...

14 response(s), 23 votes
rwayne51 66 M
6  questions
how far would you go - 6/13/2008

with the higher priced gas , i was just wondering how far would you go to visit a potential partner





me i live in an area that is stuck out in the middle of no where and usually have to travel atleast 120 miles or more , gets kinda expensive but most of the time it has been worth it

17 response(s), 18 votes
How do women get through their man being deployed? - 6/13/2008

Just curious, the guy I have been seeing from here is in the military. We've been seeing each other since Sept 07. He was deployed once...Feb-April. Now he has a deployment coming up from July to March. How do you keep yourself amused for that length of time?

15 response(s), 16 votes
rm_harry19525 57 C
2  questions
How did you wife go from fantasy stage to threesome - 6/12/2008

It is my hope to have a threesome and during sex my wife is all for it and wants a cock in her mouth and wants to be fucked .But later she seems to cool down and goes off the idea , how did you and your partner get past this stage . Thanks

11 response(s), 10 votes
Dallaspleasures 50 M
2  questions
can you handle mutual masturbation? - 6/12/2008

I was watching a show were they were talking about masturbation parties. these are parties where there is no sex just people stroking anf fingering each other off (with kissing and licking but no oral or penetration). do you think you could do this regularly if at all?

20 response(s), 21 votes
love2look5854 75 C
6  questions
HOW UNINHIBITED ARE YOU? - 6/12/2008

Well this question is for married couples in AdultFriendFinder.

In a 3 some or group sex session do you sometimes / always feel that your husband / wife is keeping an eye on you or you feel totally free to indulge ?

7 response(s), 18 votes
matt_studd 36 M
2  questions
How do i change my profile from couple to single male? - 6/12/2008

This issue is causing me problems because i am a single male not a couple, but i cant figure out how to change it.. Please help..

9 response(s), 9 votes
rwayne51 66 M
6  questions
OLD PROFILES - 6/12/2008

I was just wondering if AdultFriendFinder was to start some program that would allow them to close out all the profiles that have not been visited in over three months , would you think it would take away some of the cluster fuck this site has at times ?





JUST A THOUGHT

14 response(s), 24 votes
rm_19harley86 67 M
19  questions
curious? - 6/12/2008

I'm just curious ? Do you think all blogs or commints are true?

12 response(s), 19 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
30 Minutes of Sex Burns How Many Calories? lol.... - 6/12/2008

Thirty minutes of sex burns 85 calories or more. It may not sound like much, but it adds up: 42 half-hour sessions will burn 3, 570 calories, more than enough to lose a pound. Doubling up, you could drop that pound in 21 hour-long sessions.

10 response(s), 13 votes
learninme 34 F
2  questions
Ok ... newbie again - new question - 6/12/2008

Reading some of your past questions (and no, I didn't go too far back - sorry if this was asked before), I am curious regarding the start of communication. Since we get bombarded with winks, invites and e-mails ... what gets your attention first. Profile descrition, pics posted or a well worded e-mail?

My immediate answer (to my own question) is the e-mail. And not a cut and paste and, ...

5 response(s), 19 votes