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rm_sexyvoize 47 F
14  questions
~ best feature ~ - 6/25/2008

what is the one thing you like most about yourself ?

is it a character trait or a physical feature ?
...

19 response(s), 17 votes
Honest people........... - 6/25/2008

Why is it that it seems that 99% of the people here say anything to attempt to get laid? Has being honest gone out of fashion?

18 response(s), 28 votes
LickLarge 46 F
1  question
Which way? - 6/25/2008

Ladies, do you prefer bi men or straight men?

17 response(s), 12 votes
kinkydreams378 43 C
2  questions
Safe or Sorry? - 6/25/2008

I am wondering how many people in the lifestyle take the extra precautions they should? We all know that when meeting a couple or a single male or females for fun it can be a little uneasy at times. Some people take offense if you ask them about STDs or even worse get mad if you should ask for any medical proof.

For us, we value our health and we are picky about who we are with. We ask ...

12 response(s), 11 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Wolf whistle! - 6/25/2008

For the guys and gals.

When was the last time you heard a sharp clear loud wolf whistle blown in your direction?

Or did you blow it yourself at someone?

What do you think about them, good or bad?
...

18 response(s), 33 votes
Orgasm with no direct stimulation - 6/25/2008

I've always known it was possible to orgasm without direct stimulation, as often those naughty dreams will result in a nice little extra buzz, but I'd never really thought about it further.

Until this morning. I was giving my partner a really juicy blowjob and just as he was starting to reach his orgasm, I was hijacked suddenly by my own.

Cue very startled face and look of ...

9 response(s), 21 votes
vegasangel0125 41 C
10  questions
Swing party - 6/25/2008

My friend would like me to host a swing party, but I have no idea what do to. If anyone can give me some advice on this, I would greatly appreciate it.

16 response(s), 13 votes
leashypoo 50 M
3  questions
Nair and other hair removers - 6/25/2008

I hate to shave....anyplace. I have a goatee so i can shave less of my face thank goodness i dont need to do my pits and when it comes to my Crotch i dread the whole process not to mention the careless nicks I've been wanting to try Nair or another hair remover but for some reason i think its going to burn. Can any one tell me if its ok to use, how close can i get to my butthole ...

16 response(s), 30 votes
lionsflower77 42 C
1  question
Would you let someone...... - 6/25/2008

Would you let someone blow up your phone with text messages? Or would you let that other person blow up your spouces phone...

11 response(s), 16 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Pick up lines. - 6/24/2008

Do pick up lines really work? Which ones have worked best? Which are your favorite?

14 response(s), 14 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
A quetions for all the guys out there. - 6/24/2008

Wether you are straight, bi or gay. What do you look for in a person for a LTR? What about them would first catch your eye? What is most important?

9 response(s), 15 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
A question for the ladies out there. - 6/24/2008

Wether you are straight, bi or lesbian. What do you look for in a person for a LTR? What about them would first catch your eye? What is most important?

12 response(s), 14 votes
y is it? - 6/24/2008

that when you answer ? or blogs or statments etc. that when it says you get a silver membership you have to have a confirmed id but it doesnt tell you that untill you have the points required for it

5 response(s), 4 votes
HornySatyrCam 33 M
5  questions
First Time Advice - 6/24/2008

On my first time, what advice would you give me to perform my best?

15 response(s), 14 votes
rm_ducttapegal 37 F
21  questions
Internet Vibrators!!! - 6/24/2008

I was just wanting to know if anyone has one of the new vibrators that you can connect to either a phone line or internet connection. I understand how the works but was just wondering if anyone has one and what they think about it. Or if you don't would this be something you would like to have in your bag of toys???

10 response(s), 8 votes
woodluv2pleseu2 58 M
88  questions
Sex, the best medicine? - 6/24/2008

At one time I worked for a moving n storage company. I loved the job but hated the work. Well I suffered a few injuries at different times to my back. these injuries still give me pain now and then, especially when the weather is in a flux state. I have noticed that when I have these pains(sometimes fairly sever) and I have an orgasm the pains immediately diminishes greatly. I think it is the ...

7 response(s), 13 votes
quathead 66 M
1  question
Here today gone tomorrow!! - 6/24/2008

It really ceases to amaze me that a person on AdultFriendFinder is actively in a "chat mode" one day and gone the next! Forgive me for being naive but to correspond with someone for quite a while and interact with them on , shall I say, on a personal mode for a time is a great boost to ones ego. But yep, it's like as if they were transponded to a different galaxy! Did they exist? Were they a figment of my ...

6 response(s), 16 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Are You Afraid To Die? Do You Believe There Is A Heaven? - 6/24/2008

What do you believe happens after you die? Is there a heaven? Is there a God? Religion is a touchy subject as is Politics. I was just wondering what you believe happens when you die.

I am scared of death. My father was, too. He went to see a minister as he knew he was going to die; he had cancer. After his visit with the minister, he somehow came to peace. The night before he ...

22 response(s), 27 votes
Misbehavn2 55 C
37  questions
AdultFriendFinder - 6/24/2008

i was talking to AdultFriendFinder on the phone today they told me that if this site ever went down or if something ever happened that i could access my acct through another web web site passion.com all my stuff here is there did any one know this have you done it?

22 response(s), 15 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Anti-establishment!? - 6/24/2008

Are you now or have you ever in your life been anti-establishment? ...

28 response(s), 52 votes
nicco100 55 M
165  questions
ladies - 6/24/2008

are men afraid of sexually agressive women The wonderful thing about a sexually aggressive woman is that she's completely in tune with what she enjoys when it comes to lovemaking. She has no qualms about letting her lover know what makes her tick.

12 response(s), 9 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Men! Sleeping After Sex - Theory - 6/24/2008

Sleeping after sex? It's not just after sex; it's after watching sports; eating a big dinner or getting excited over any event. Men seem to have this overdrive kick in when they get excited about anything in their life.

I recently read an article about men and falling asleep after they had sex (mainly after they ejaculated); and, sometimes before the woman actually was satisfied. ...

15 response(s), 27 votes
DTaituk 45 M
1  question
Behaviour in chat - 6/24/2008

I have a chatroom I like to hang out in, a lot. I understand that some people think that this is "sad" and that I should "get out in the real world and meet people". If you are one of those people you can stop reading now as for reasons of my own I have no interest in your opinion.

Anyway, back to the point, I like to chat so I go to this room and spend quite a lot of my time there. ...

13 response(s), 10 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Your Biggest Fear or Phobia? - 6/24/2008

We all have a fear or phobia of something. It could be growing old; finding out you have cancer; or, it might be spiders; snakes, etc.

I have a couple phobias. They are getting old and flying.

20 response(s), 12 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Who Lies More? Men or Women? - 6/24/2008

Who do you think lies more; men or women or equally the same?

I think men tend to tell smaller lies such as telling a woman he likes what she's wearing when she looks like hell! lol

Or, "Honey do I look fat?" Like he's gonna say "Yes?" lol....

Who lies more in relationships?

Who like more in money matters?

14 response(s), 12 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Women That Over Think - Are You One? - 6/24/2008

I have had my own struggles in the dating world. One thing that I have come to terms with is that men and women do not think a like. Most often times, women react too emotionally and over think matters that men don't think twice about. An example would be if a man doesn't call her back after she calls. Women will tend to get emotional about it and try to "think" of reasons why he didn't ...

8 response(s), 16 votes
phillyclint06 48 M
51  questions
double standard - 6/24/2008

Why do you think that woman get a bad for wanting to have no string attached sex?

17 response(s), 12 votes
rm_ducttapegal 37 F
21  questions
Hair..... - 6/24/2008

OK I have really long hair it goes down to my butt. I normally like to wear it up when having sex it keeps it out of the way ex when giving head. But i have had guys ask me to wear it down. So i was wondering what do most guys like do you like it clipped up so it is out of the way or pulled back in a ponytail so it is easy to pull if needed, or do you want it down, or something else.

...

15 response(s), 13 votes
shybuthot56 65 C
1  question
Flirts and Hotlist - 6/24/2008

Why can we not view the people on those two lists? Does anyone else have that problem?

19 response(s), 21 votes
How personal is too personal? - 6/24/2008

Recently Iv'e seen some people in chat, talking about others while they are not there. This can be anything from being stood up by them, arranging meetings with 2 members (we all know you don't do that to 2 females who know each other)or revealing something about their past. I find this very distasteful in a public forum. If I know something personally (and only then) that could prove a ...

16 response(s), 21 votes