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A cautious word. 5/11/2005
Todays society is finally begining to become more accept
of the induvidual rights to sexual freedom. While alot
of people still find the need to hide certain parts of there
lives through threat of ridicule (never fear ridicule
it is only a lack of understanding) or that they may be alienated
from those they know. Thus as a result people who are normal,
logical induviduals feel they must ...
6 Comments, 5133 Views,
250 Votes
,3.34 Score
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Credit cards on the first date 4/22/2005
This applies to both men and women, and especially on first
dates. Never leave your credit card on the table to pay the
bill, and go use the restroom.
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Yes they could steal it, but what is much worse, is when they
copy the number. You don't know it when they copy your
number. Imagine the damage they can do until your next billing
statement arrives.
0 Comments, 144 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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Extreme but safe 4/19/2005
When meeting a first date that you have not shared a photo
with, try the following:
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Arrange the date at a location that is usually busy, and
which you are familiar with. Have your date describe themself
to you, what they are wearing, height, weight, hair color,
etc. Do this just prior to meeting. Tell your date to wait
30 minutes and then leave if you don't contact them. ...
1 Comments, 279 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Telephoning someone you are meeting for the first time. 4/17/2005
Never use your home phone to call someone you are meeting
for the first time. Use your cell phone and push *67 before
dialing the number. *67 blocks your number from appearing
on caller ID. Try this first by calling a friend to make sure
this works with your cell phone service.
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If the person you are calling does not accept blocked numbers,
then use a pay phone or borrow a ...
0 Comments, 124 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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Meeting for the first time. 4/17/2005
When meeting someone for the first time, I recommend arriving
by taxi at a public coffee house or bar that you pick, during
the day.
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By meeting in a coffee house or bar there will be other people
immediately around you. By picking the location to meet
reduces the likelyhood that he has a close friend working
at the location. Also most coffee houses or bars are smaller
then ...
0 Comments, 88 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Posting old photos? 4/16/2005
Posting an old photo versus no photo is understandable,
but be upfront that the photo is old. AdultFriendFinder members want to
see the current you, on your profile, not what you looked
like 5 years ago.
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Posting recent photos shows that you are honest and sincere
about meeting new friends. Posting recent photos will
help avoid uncomfortable conversations about what you
really look like. ...
0 Comments, 54 Views,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score
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Common Sense 4/12/2005
If you are meeting someone off here for the first time use
common sense. Meet during the day in a public place and dont
make plans that are going to take up most of the day in case
its ackward and you two dont get along. Plan on getting a
coffee or quick bite to eat unless you two are just planning
on jumping in the sack together and have seen each other
on webcams and talked many times ...
0 Comments, 177 Views,
22 Votes
,4.33 Score
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Residence 4/7/2005
This can be for ladies and gentlemen. If you have a date,
and they insist, (for some reason, ) to pick you up from
your house, trust me, it is a trap to see where you stay, and
stalk you, and/or do worse things. So, this is what I do,
I tell them okay, and guide them to at least 4 streets over.
So, that way, you know the area, but don't have to let
them know where you stay. Or, you ...
0 Comments, 200 Views,
15 Votes
,4.20 Score
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Knowing your date 4/5/2005
Knowing your date is very important, especially on blind
dates. Be very cautious with whom you date, especially
with strange men whom you met in an extraordinary situation.
Watch your date, see how he moves. Does he maintain physical
contact with you at all times? Does he avert his eyes when
you ask him a question? Does he give evasive responses or
ask very personal questions? Yes to any of ...
0 Comments, 89 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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want to stay local 4/4/2005
i feel i should not have to keep my swinging ordeals private
from the town i live in. i would much rather meet local people
who share the same interests i do. i mean its not like we try
to meet at pta meetings or anything. i respect other people's
feelings that they dont want the attention. just, for me
personally, should i really care if someone in the supermarket
knows im a swinger?
0 Comments, 57 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Meeting Someone For The First Time 3/28/2005
Hello Everyone,
I am new to this and haven't actually followed through
with physically meeting anyone yet. My question is, what
is the safest and most preferred way to go about personally
meeting someone. Where do most people like to meet their
"friends" for the first time? At the house,
the mall, the bar?
3 Comments, 460 Views,
24 Votes
,3.47 Score
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HOW IMPORTANT ARE LOOKS 3/27/2005
Don't get me wrong, looks do matter. A little. I've
been with hotties and not so hotties, but the sex is not always
the same. Some of my best sex has been with the no-so-hotties,
and my worst with the hotties. If the girl is good in bed,
looks don't matter as much. And sometimes the hotties
are stuck up or pruddish. This is not always the case but
just remember good looks doesn't always ...
4 Comments, 247 Views,
12 Votes
,4.74 Score
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Say no 3/27/2005
no is good learn to say it
1 Comments, 82 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Should you ever.... 3/19/2005
We have been invited to a few peoples houses but I never want
to go unless I already have met the person because I am afraid
of what might happen if they turn out to be nuts. Should you
ever go to someones house from AdultFriendFinder you have never met????????
3 Comments, 252 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Rewards of Sex Watching 3/18/2005
This is a sequel to Caught Sex Watching 12-11-04.
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Klaus and my wife were clearly startled as they heard the
wardrobe door close. He withdrew his penis from deep inside
my wife's bottom, got up and opened the wardrobe door.
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They were aghast as they saw me there.
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How much have you seen she asked me?
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Everything I replied, still very ...
0 Comments, 548 Views,
13 Votes
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Come on ladies...get safe! 3/17/2005
Why are ladies meeting just any guy without running them
through the proper obstacle course? If the guy is aggressive
on the internet chances are he is ten times worse in person.
Always meet during the day first. I know how much everyone
likes to meet for a drink at night but in the dark is when most
crimes occur. Have a cell phone, meet in a public area, and
look for red flags before ...
3 Comments, 223 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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Don't give out much Info 3/17/2005
I have found that generally on this site most men are liers
to some extent. I assume a lot of women do this also but why
lie about who you are of if you are married? You will be found
out and it just makes people mad for no reason. Also noticed
guys like to say sure lets meet in public then turn around
and say where do you live? DON'T TELL THEM!!!!! Most
men are just curious but some can be ...
1 Comments, 152 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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NAMES OF GUYS TO AVOID ON HERE AND SISITER SITES 3/16/2005
I have this evening been robbed by a man who claimed to be
a vwe blk man who lived in east london Walthamstow (obviously
a lie)Granted it was my own dam fault for trusting his no
good thieving ass but my mum passed away last week and although
chatted b4 breifly took it upon myself to trust him and was
very wrong. He also stole some of my mums items as he fooled
me into believing he would be ...
1 Comments, 328 Views,
21 Votes
,4.86 Score
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any advice? 3/7/2005
i recently recieved an email from a couple on this site.
a man told me i had permission to fuck his wife.i emailed
him back about some irregulaitites in his email and he then
emailed me back with very plausible explainations. i am
thinking about meeting with this couple. although i am
able to take care of myself in most any situation i would
like to know if anyone has any particular advice ...
5 Comments, 469 Views,
16 Votes
,3.72 Score
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keep an eye ou 3/2/2005
always meet in a public place first...get to know how you
are meeting and feel comfortable......have a good time
shared by all
0 Comments, 165 Views,
4 Votes
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What do you do as precautions? 2/18/2005
I mostly won't meet people unless we agree on a place
where there are lots of people areound, such as the college
campus. What about the rest of you?
0 Comments, 200 Views,
15 Votes
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Two sides of the coin. 2/17/2005
I´ve read alot of the articles here about dating safety, and
to add, even though there are a-holes out there, I myself
am one, I do not want a persons home number or home address
or even go to their house just from the first email I receive
from them.Myself, I would feel uncomfortable going to
someones house that I just met.I tried it once, and we had
are fun, dont get me wrong, but I ...
1 Comments, 242 Views,
23 Votes
,3.13 Score
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Safety First 1/27/2005
Ok ladies listen up and same goes for you men as well. I'm
been meeting people online for over 5 years now and there
is no thing that's actually saved my life once.
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Starters NEVER give out your home phone number until after
you meet and get to know the person off line. Gie them your
cel phone number only. There are too many ways of people
finding your home addy, place of ...
8 Comments, 1131 Views,
103 Votes
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Genuine or Not? 1/27/2005
How can you be sure to who is behind a profile on AdultFriendFinder?
Sure there are more genuine females/males/couples than
there are fake, but how can you separate the bad apples from
the good ones?
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I think that the adult verification is a great idea, but
to some it could seem a little off-putting/time consuming
having to print out the form and fill in all the details then ...
5 Comments, 348 Views,
25 Votes
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Password Protected 1/25/2005
When meeting for the first time, it's always best to
meet in a very public place. I usually try to find a restaurant,
bar, even a shopping mall where I know someone who works
there. That way, if trouble is brewing you can always run
to them for help. Another thing that works really well is
using a trustly old password approach. Make sure you've
told someone where you are going. Dial ...
1 Comments, 173 Views,
20 Votes
,4.78 Score
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what can we do better 1/21/2005
as men what can we talk about during a conversation at a bar
to entice your interests more?
1 Comments, 146 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score
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how safe is this site 1/18/2005
I am curious have all of the encounters on this site been
safe. Has anyone had a frightening encounter and is there
any precautions I should take?
3 Comments, 379 Views,
11 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Condom Breaking 1/18/2005
How can you tell if your condom might have had a little tear
in it, even if you can't see it?
2 Comments, 325 Views,
11 Votes
,0.36 Score
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On line dating and how to do it safely 1/16/2005
I'm a new member to this web page. What I want too know
how safe do you think it is to meet someone you are writing
over the web pages. The way I see it is read the profiles and
always go down to the QUESTION that asks HAVE YOU BEEN TRUTHFUL
and if they answered YES then read though the rest of the
questions that they answered then talk to them on line for
about 2 weeks before meeting. You ...
0 Comments, 124 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score
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Online Dating Dilemma: Dishing Out Rejection 1/16/2005
The Internet is a strange place, and what seems abnormal
for in-person experiences is completely common on the
Internet. Notice that the word is common, not polite or
considerate.
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You need to know how to dish out rejection in an appropriate
way. As with real life, you must do it quickly – and with a
modicum of kindness, if possible. Granted, for some people,
a more ...
1 Comments, 423 Views,
31 Votes
,4.29 Score
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