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rm_jmwilen 40 C
7  Articles
meeting   9/16/2006

It can become tricky arranging to meet for the first time and it's always best to be cautious. We advise you try and get to know someone for a while online before you meet, make it clear what you're both/all after and when it's time meet in a public place like a pub or resturaunt.


0 Comments, 68 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
as you like   9/4/2006

normal


0 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Winterzknight 46 M
8  Articles
Taking it slow, when the body wants to move fast   8/16/2006

Probably the most difficult thing about online sex sites is the notion of taking things slow - in order to get to know someone - when your body is sending a different signal. Let's face it, sometimes our baser instincts not only try to get the better of us - sometimes they do. All the more reason to make the conscious effort to take it slow when jumping into the world of online dating and ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
taximark69 50 M
1  Article
Safety Tips.   8/16/2006

The majority of people using sites like this are genuine people looking for a bit of adult fun or maybe even looking for that special life partner. There are some, however, who have slightly darker reasons, for being her. They are few and far between but there are few tricks that you can use to avoid falling foul of someone, or coming unstuck.
When you are going to meet someone for ...


0 Comments, 82 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
ThickDrkChoclat 47 C
4  Articles
Remember   8/13/2006

When meeting someone for the first time always meet in a public place.


0 Comments, 58 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
love   8/3/2006

You are the omega of my heart The foundation of my conception of love When I think of what a woman should be It’s you that I first think of
You will never fully understand How deeply my heart feels for you I worry that we’ll grow apart And I’ll end up losing you
You bring me to climax without sex And you do it all with regal grace ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
peachez_w_cream2 46 C
19  Articles
dating safety   8/3/2006

remember alway now who u are dateing first bye asking around to make sure if he or she is safe


0 Comments, 66 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
steveislooking1 55 M
7  Articles
Where and How to Meet   7/31/2006

Let someone know where you are going, with whom you are going to meet, and what time you are expected back. Make sure to have a time by which you should contact your friend to let him/her know that you are back home safe.
Always meet in public places for the first time. Never park your car in an isolated place - park in the middle of a lot near a light and near other cars, ...


2 Comments, 72 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
davedoesitagain 53 M
1  Article
dont send anything to someone you dont know   7/28/2006

Ive been involved in various adult dating sites over the last three years and I think we can all agree that they are littered with men with nothing better to do than get back at their ex girlfriends with pics they once took. This brings me to suggest that it is probably better not to waste your time talking to someoone who you dont know and sending them pics - why do they need pics in the ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
drllr 41 M
8  Articles
dating safety   7/22/2006

yeah, i'm not too sure if there's any safe way to dating. if two people end up liking each other, then they will start gettin attached. once attached, your feeling are involved and if you are not committed to a relationship with each other, it's not going to have a happy outcome.


0 Comments, 32 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
Ixnay206 43 M
9  Articles
Checking Up   7/19/2006

What is the worst (or best) thing any one has done to find out about a potential date? What lengths have you gone to. Myself, Ive had a friend do a very extensive background check on a previous date. Good thing I did too


0 Comments, 45 Views, 0 Votes
torq6968 66 C
1  Article
Meeting for the first time, what has worked for us   7/19/2006

Meeting someone for the first time can be a bit scary. Espically for the ladies of this site. Yes, even for some of the guys, too.
We have met a large amount of people thru AdultFriendFinder. When we started meeting people, we did most of it at a bowling center. yup, that is right. It helped that we are bowlers, tho. As a married couple, we are together all the time. So, any single guys ...


3 Comments, 234 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
rm_trysome1983 40 M
2  Articles
where should we meet   7/13/2006

Where is a safe place to meet people I find on this web site?


4 Comments, 246 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
LustBuster999 38 M
3  Articles
mine or yours   7/4/2006

1.meet in a public car park 2.exchange drivers licences 3.leave them in your cars 4.go and have fun 5.come back to car park, return each other's licences. how about this for safety


1 Comments, 194 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
imakeuwet75 48 C
9  Articles
Be safe!!!   6/17/2006

All people should crop them selves out of a picture or take the picture with a back drop. Give out no specifics when your chatting like where you hang out, where you like to eat, where you work, where you play ect...You could just tell some one I like to eat at blah blah blah and BAM!!! some body is stalking you.Be careful people.


1 Comments, 155 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
rm_ozmassageguy 49 M
5  Articles
Ruining it for everyone....   6/15/2006

Just a quick message to the arseholes here that are dysfunctional and desperate.
Please stop doing the following to members of the opposite sex online. 1. Stating on your profile that youre from one place yet in conversation it comes out youre located in another country. 2. Getting pissed if people ignore you or dont like you. 3. Taking out the misfortune and frustration of ...


0 Comments, 212 Views, 15 Votes ,4.05 Score
Never Date a Biter.   6/3/2006

So I went out with this girl for a while, and she loved to bite. The only problem was she LOVED to bite. I had marks on my body from head to toe. Every day, sometimes in not so hidden places. I had to get stitches twice. The only reason I decided to date her was because years before I had an encounter with a girl who was a biter. She left some serious marks and it got me world fame ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 0 Votes
hey   5/28/2006

condom or no condom


3 Comments, 77 Views, 0 Votes
Be Safe Out there   5/24/2006

This should apply to both sides. There is a certain comfort level you should have in meeting... Sure everyone is nervous but you should not throw caution to the wind be safe. If you have to meet in a neutral place. Tell a friend where you are going. I am a huge believer every woman needs some self defense training. The reason why is that we see the news...things get out of hand. I ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
Common Sense   5/21/2006

It IS entirely possible to meet someone within any length of knowing them and have a safe date. But remember there are always people that are more experienced then others. If you're inexperienced, it's always good to chose a public place and for peace of mind. You could also let a friend know where you're going. It couldn't hurt to tell a little fib for your first date like setting a ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
rm_Hard2Guard 44 M
10  Articles
Pepper Spray   5/16/2006

Bring pepper spray on the first date. Use it even if you don't need to. If you like him, spray him with it and say it was an accident. After, you can baby him, he'll like that.


1 Comments, 30 Views, 3 Votes
StrokeUrDaddy 36 M
10  Articles
Safty Alert!   5/11/2006

Learn to be safe. One thing I dont like is when women are taken advantage of. so women makesure your ready for anything, Cary mace with you you also can just know who your going out with first before. No blind dates. which are the worst, and thats my IO on all of that.


0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Dating Safety For Men   4/28/2006

Have you ever recieved a response from the perfect woman? Physicaly perfect and just dieing to sleep with you even though you might not be quite the good looker. She could stop men in there tracks by simply walking passed them, sufficate you with her breasts, and even have you proposing in a week. Then why the hell is she talking to you? For your credit card number of course! I am not ...


0 Comments, 260 Views, 21 Votes ,4.61 Score
rm_friend604025 55 F
4  Articles
Is First time right   3/26/2006

hello,
im gonna meet someone off here this week, and they wanna just go ahead and meet and do some things is this right first time around? or should i wait to get to know person please help. any ideas or advice. please


5 Comments, 382 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
virginbutt73 43 M
1  Article
wanting to be with a guy for the first time, how should i do it?   3/24/2006

new to all this, live near dallas area, don't want to do the gay club thing, as i also like chicks. willing to be with a couple, man/women or even man/man, is there some kind of advice for me. i'm planning on getting a motel room and have them meet me there. how long should we talk before go to the next level? wanting to tape it, any advice will be helpful, and anyone wanting the job?


2 Comments, 279 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
cherrysstud69 52 C
10  Articles
Screening potential candidates for swinging   3/18/2006

I feel weird about meeting new people for swinging. We can email each other, and switch pictures(if they are accurate). I still feel odd about meeting total strangers to exchange bodily fluids. I never know where to start, who should do what when, what is appropriate, should you. It is easier with a woman. With a man, I feel like if I talk too dirty to him or look at him too long or suck or ...


0 Comments, 131 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
Disease free   3/17/2006

I have wondered the percentage of those sexually active with some sort of STD actually tells their partner before they get to it. How many are honest about it?


1 Comments, 157 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
So, who's packing?   3/16/2006

Just curious. Women out there, do you carry mace? Switchblades? A homemade shiv hidden in the bodice? lol, I actually saw a video of that once.
Where do you hide your peacemakers?


0 Comments, 50 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
WHAT TO KNOW   3/8/2006

WHAT MUST YOU KNOW ABOUT GOING ON THE FIRST DAY?


0 Comments, 75 Views, 0 Votes
__________vix 49 F
9  Articles
When to cut and run?   3/8/2006

There is much in the news these days about so-called "date " drugs and the like, and I wondered if anyone had any tips for surviving a first date, besides the obvious ones of telling someone where you will be going and never leaving a drink unattended.


0 Comments, 181 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score