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rm_trysome1983 40 M
2  Articles
where should we meet   7/13/2006

Where is a safe place to meet people I find on this web site?


4 Comments, 246 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
LustBuster999 38 M
3  Articles
mine or yours   7/4/2006

1.meet in a public car park 2.exchange drivers licences 3.leave them in your cars 4.go and have fun 5.come back to car park, return each other's licences. how about this for safety


1 Comments, 194 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
imakeuwet75 48 C
9  Articles
Be safe!!!   6/17/2006

All people should crop them selves out of a picture or take the picture with a back drop. Give out no specifics when your chatting like where you hang out, where you like to eat, where you work, where you play ect...You could just tell some one I like to eat at blah blah blah and BAM!!! some body is stalking you.Be careful people.


1 Comments, 155 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
hey   5/28/2006

condom or no condom


3 Comments, 77 Views, 0 Votes
rm_Hard2Guard 44 M
10  Articles
Pepper Spray   5/16/2006

Bring pepper spray on the first date. Use it even if you don't need to. If you like him, spray him with it and say it was an accident. After, you can baby him, he'll like that.


1 Comments, 30 Views, 3 Votes
Dating Safety For Men   4/28/2006

Have you ever recieved a response from the perfect woman? Physicaly perfect and just dieing to sleep with you even though you might not be quite the good looker. She could stop men in there tracks by simply walking passed them, sufficate you with her breasts, and even have you proposing in a week. Then why the hell is she talking to you? For your credit card number of course! I am not ...


0 Comments, 260 Views, 21 Votes ,4.61 Score
rm_friend604025 55 F
4  Articles
Is First time right   3/26/2006

hello,
im gonna meet someone off here this week, and they wanna just go ahead and meet and do some things is this right first time around? or should i wait to get to know person please help. any ideas or advice. please


5 Comments, 382 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
virginbutt73 43 M
1  Article
wanting to be with a guy for the first time, how should i do it?   3/24/2006

new to all this, live near dallas area, don't want to do the gay club thing, as i also like chicks. willing to be with a couple, man/women or even man/man, is there some kind of advice for me. i'm planning on getting a motel room and have them meet me there. how long should we talk before go to the next level? wanting to tape it, any advice will be helpful, and anyone wanting the job?


2 Comments, 279 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
cherrysstud69 52 C
10  Articles
Screening potential candidates for swinging   3/18/2006

I feel weird about meeting new people for swinging. We can email each other, and switch pictures(if they are accurate). I still feel odd about meeting total strangers to exchange bodily fluids. I never know where to start, who should do what when, what is appropriate, should you. It is easier with a woman. With a man, I feel like if I talk too dirty to him or look at him too long or suck or ...


0 Comments, 131 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
Disease free   3/17/2006

I have wondered the percentage of those sexually active with some sort of STD actually tells their partner before they get to it. How many are honest about it?


1 Comments, 157 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
So, who's packing?   3/16/2006

Just curious. Women out there, do you carry mace? Switchblades? A homemade shiv hidden in the bodice? lol, I actually saw a video of that once.
Where do you hide your peacemakers?


0 Comments, 50 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
__________vix 49 F
9  Articles
When to cut and run?   3/8/2006

There is much in the news these days about so-called "date " drugs and the like, and I wondered if anyone had any tips for surviving a first date, besides the obvious ones of telling someone where you will be going and never leaving a drink unattended.


0 Comments, 181 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score
good advice for married man   3/4/2006

its my first voyage into this realm and im looking for some sound advice on do's and dont's.


1 Comments, 148 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Where to meet?   2/25/2006

I think the "meet" should occur in a public place with many innocent bystanders. This has several possibilities. One, for if the "meet" just isn't a "click". Two, public displays can always add that quick bit of adrenaline and fun. Three, There is no neutral goruns its foreign to both parties. Four, amp up the attitude and do a dare or a pic or an act. We will all love you more for it.


1 Comments, 152 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
TenN1Half 59 M
6  Articles
Safety   2/23/2006

Always be safe when meeting and having sex.


1 Comments, 181 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
DayPlayer69 48 M
3  Articles
Take it slow   2/16/2006

If there is one thing I'd advise to people it is to take care of themselves online. Take my experiences have been fairly safe, and really fun. I have had the benefit of meeting some great people and whilst we have'nt ended up having sex or even coming near it I have actually made some cool new friends whom are very fuckable. Anyway here's a thought, when you share your MSN with someone, ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
Meeting?   2/10/2006

Where does everyone find is best to meet that is discreet but safe?


1 Comments, 107 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
snowonroof2006 82 M
0  Articles
Dating/general safety   2/7/2006

Dating/general safety <br> Add to this General Safety list these common sense dating safety rules: <br> Don't be afraid to say NO! If you're not comfortable with the way things are headed, run like hell. <br> When you are comfortable enough to meet for the first time. Meet in a busy (read, where there's a LOT of people) public place. <br> Get a picture ...


1 Comments, 212 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
rm_armycpl4cpl2 43 C
7  Articles
just be careful.   2/4/2006

ok check this out. have you ever went down on your partner with a mint in your mouth for that extra tingle? yeah its all good and eveything, just make sure you dont use a cinnamon flavored mint. it will cause a burning sensation to each of you especially when you all start to have sex. so be cautious of what you try.


4 Comments, 413 Views, 32 Votes ,3.80 Score
flirtyone2006 42 F
9  Articles
A little help   1/27/2006

Anyone have any suggestions for meeting people for the first time my best friend think's I'm crazy for being on here but I think there is some good people on here where as she think's you are all crazy stalker slash serial soething or other any advice.


6 Comments, 304 Views, 12 Votes ,2.98 Score
girlcravesgirl 49 C
10  Articles
Condoms vs. Pill   1/26/2006

If you are engaged in a 3-some. should you change the condom each time you change partners?


2 Comments, 203 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
spankme2times2 65 M
17  Articles
WoW. how much information is avaible online.   1/15/2006

I am new not only to this site but I havennt beed dating in quite a long time, boy how things have changed, some for the better. but some things I have found are scary. Like back in 1985 before I got married. we figured that anything we cought could be curred with penicilian , now we have to be worried about aids. But thats not what I meant to talk about. I meet a girl on line and she sent ...


0 Comments, 181 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
PearlTea 28 F
3  Articles
The First Date was At His Place   1/9/2006

A date I had just recently had mindblowing chemistry. He told me that he was surprised that I had gone to his place to dinner without meeting somewhere public first... and the date with the wrong person could have been tragic. <br> But I LOVE that thrill of just jumping into it, you know? I comforted myself in thinking that I've somewhat 'tested' him through our email relay and ...


6 Comments, 626 Views, 25 Votes ,2.58 Score
rm_yngguy4you2 38 M
6  Articles
people thoughts on general safety of online dating   1/6/2006

what are your thoughts on online dating/hooking up safety? particularly this site? so you think it varies between different groups, old/young gay/straight?


1 Comments, 205 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
rm_cv4135 45 M
5  Articles
Driving Safety in Texas   12/31/2005

I would like to take this opportunity to suggest that floks in Texas are perhaps the worst and most dnagerous drivers in the world. It's not that their stupid or anything ... But if you've ever driven on I-35 through Central Texas you'll notice each vehicle is allotted approximately 6 inches of air between vehicle bumpers while traveling 75 miles an hour. It is also illegal of course to ...


1 Comments, 69 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
Naturalwildlover 66 F
1  Article
From Educated Experience   12/30/2005

I act as if the person I am meeting on this site is like the stranger I see on the street-you wouldn't invite a stranger home to your bed-you would want to get to know them first! <br> 1: Just because a fella emails me-doesn't automatically grant him an answer-we are all adults here! If you say Hello to someone on the street-they don't always acknowlege you said something to ...


2 Comments, 280 Views, 23 Votes ,6.75 Score
brinlegryphon8 52 M
10  Articles
Pour you own!   12/30/2005

Don't accept drinks at a party unless you see them mix it. I had a buddy that woke up in a ditch, and he was sore for a week!


1 Comments, 191 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
MamChelle 48 F
9  Articles
ya need to do more than meet in public.....   12/29/2005

Meeting in public places seems to be the main advice folks keep giving. But concider how many persons are kidnapped right out in public each year. I advise that for the meet and greet, set up that ol emergency get me outta here call. It works on a few levels. The caller will know if you are where you should have pre aranged to tell them you were going to be meeting. Secondly, If ...


2 Comments, 368 Views, 26 Votes ,3.89 Score
Meeting up   12/28/2005

You know when you talk to someone online if you will actually meet up. Be smart, if they seem a little shady and are asking you to go up the alley and crawl in a window, this is probably not someone you want to hook up with...


1 Comments, 162 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
wakeboarder20054 36 M
3  Articles
Passwords   12/23/2005

Don't give your passwords to your boyfriend/girlfriend. In my dating history, that always seems to lead to trouble. While trust is at the bottom of every relationship, having access to things like that has proven (to the woman I have been with) to be too much to handle.


0 Comments, 56 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score