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HOW TO CREATE SELF WORTH 1/16/2005
Self worth is not instant. It is a process, not a thing! Self
worth is constantly being sapped and demolished by the
nature of our society, and even the physics of our universe.
A person is responsible for their own happiness, and also
for their own self worth. Neither can really be bought,
sold, given or accepted, despite all fuss to the contrary.
Self worth, and happiness for that matter, ...
7 Comments, 2396 Views,
249 Votes
,6.77 Score
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the super glue of love.... 1/16/2005
There is nothing more important in a relationship then
friendship. If you're not the best of friends then
not a damn thing you try will work. If you two don't honestly
just enjoy hanging out together, then there will be no future
for you. Love, whatever the Hell that is, will quickly burn
off. But friendship will last forever.
2 Comments, 203 Views,
19 Votes
,3.26 Score
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trust 1/16/2005
Trust is the what a relationship is.. If you dont have trust
then you should look at your relationship because it probably
isnt very strong
1 Comments, 155 Views,
17 Votes
,2.84 Score
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((Build Win-win Relationships)) 1/15/2005
((Build Win-win Relationships))
<br>
The secret to building win-win relationships is honesty.
You
first have to be honest with yourself as to who you are and
what you want, then act accordingly. You must also be honest
with others that you have relationships with as to who you
are and what you want from the relationship. Surprise,
surprise, the relationships that do not give you ...
1 Comments, 89 Views,
11 Votes
,5.97 Score
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How to get a man to do as you wish, without the typical struggle. 1/14/2005
Do you find men to be difficult and confounding?
Consider this:
First of all, let's get the truth on the table. Females
(All animal's, including humans) are superior to
males. No matter the measure, females come out on top, except
brute strength.(Although pound for pound that may not
be accurate.) You live longer, are healthier, better able
to adapt and accept, work under stress more ...
4 Comments, 206 Views,
14 Votes
,2.34 Score
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Relationships and "the lifestyle" 1/13/2005
Well, one thing is for sure, if you are a swinger and have
tried all different types of connecting with others who
are "like-minded" - you have probably run into
the same problem occuring - no matter what the venue....
Trust Issues.
<br>
Clearly, there is a new age of swingers coming out of the
closet. "Lifestylers" - (as they refer to themselves)
these days will always air on ...
0 Comments, 152 Views,
17 Votes
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Give me a reason to love you 1/12/2005
I'm so tired, of playing
Playing with this bow and arrow
Gonna give my heart away
Leave it to the other girls to play
For I've been a temptress too long
<br>
Just. .
<br>
Give me a reason to love you
Give me a reason to bee, a woman
I just wanna be a woman
<br>
From this time, unchained
We're all looking at a different picture
Thru this new ...
0 Comments, 59 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Looking for advice from married women who have successfully found sex outside marriage 1/9/2005
I am pursuing the idea of having sex with another man. My
husband is the only man I have ever slept with and I'm
hoping that will change soon. I'm not sure yet if what
I want is a one-time experience or to find a fuck buddy. I
do know that the city I live in is small and it feels even smaller
when I start contemplating having sex with another man
and no one knowing about it.
<br> ...
1 Comments, 315 Views,
17 Votes
,2.42 Score
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TO LAST FOREVER 1/8/2005
My hubby and I have a wonderful relationship and it is all
because trust, loyality and love. We do everything together,
tell each other everything, there is no secrets. I think
is important. We enjoy open sex with other partners and
enjoy each others bodies. We are married 15 years still
feels like it is our first year of marriage. We cannot keep
our hands off each other and we are ...
3 Comments, 296 Views,
35 Votes
,6.06 Score
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Misconceptions 1/7/2005
I am writing this article out of frustration and dissapointment
resulting from "near misses" in establishing
a relationship.
An AdultFriendFinder member in Bolder, Co., wrote "I feel that men
get the raw end of the deal and are made to look like that is
all they want is sex. Truth of the matter is women are snobbish,
prude and selfish when it comes to sex. There's a dark
side to male sexuality that ...
1 Comments, 149 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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honesty is the best policy 1/6/2005
I know it sounds lame and cheesy, but in building a relationship
both parties have to be honest with each other. Especially
with their sexual needs. If not the relationship will die
a long slow death. And that is Hell to live in.
9 Comments, 263 Views,
22 Votes
,4.57 Score
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will you have a threesome 1/5/2005
My boyfriend asked me to have a threesome with him and another
woman. He say it's not because he wants to be with another
woman it's just a fantasy he has and wants to do it with
me involved. I am insecure about the whole thing because
i am worried about how he will feel about seeing me with another
woman. But i want to do it, I just don't want to lose him
because of it. HELP!
3 Comments, 234 Views,
19 Votes
,4.05 Score
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Frends and lovers? 1/1/2005
I met a girl a couple years ago and had a instant attraction
to her, over the next couple years we have become best freinds,
Doing couple stuff together, but with no intimitsy (SP)
I recently confessesed to her that my feelings went beyond
freindship, and wanted to become closer, And she told me
we couldn't because we were such good friends and she
dosnt have those type of feelings for me. ...
3 Comments, 119 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Finding a third... 12/31/2004
My husband and I have been using the site for a few months
now. There are a few things that I guess we just don't
understand. First, why would a female member include in
her profile that she is looking for M/F couples when after
reading her profile it's clear that she's only
looking for a man? My guess is that they're just trying
to increase the number of "hits" on their profile,
but ...
2 Comments, 218 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Real????? 12/30/2004
What are people really looking for. It seems to me that a
great deal of the people on here want to look at profiles
or have you go to their site or somethign like that.
<br>
Where are the real people who want to meet. are they all in
another state? If so What State?
<br>
I thought that Florida was the loses state when it came to
sex.
<br>
Any ways enough of ...
1 Comments, 87 Views,
14 Votes
,1.38 Score
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When's the best time to start getting rough? 12/28/2004
How do you come about to get into rougher sex? Mega-hair
pulling, whips, hard spanks and slaps, etc etc? I've
had prior relationships where she said get rougher, but
I'm not sure of the limits and it seems to be pulling
teeth for them to let me know.. Anyone have a better solution
than I tried- Talking about it?
3 Comments, 101 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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women 12/27/2004
is it true a women, can get a guy a lot faster.than a guy can
get a women .i wonder why.
3 Comments, 101 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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trust love, and desires 12/27/2004
how many of you can truely say that you trust your mate{whether
2 women, 2 men, or a man and woman} 100% all the time? in this
day and age, the ones who do get married, often go in it
saying well if it doesn't work we will get divorced.thats
not the right way to plan your future.now matter who it is
the sooner they both realize that at time when you äre"you
are wrong.and sometimes you ...
3 Comments, 66 Views,
14 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Can there be trust 12/24/2004
Ive been through alot of shit with a women, and i dont no if
i can build any trust she fooled around on me twice but i still
love her what should i do?
12 Comments, 288 Views,
52 Votes
,1.99 Score
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ideas to keep your relationship going 12/20/2004
i find the best way to build on any relationship is that the
2 people need to have a strong friendship as a base. being
best friends and taking the time to sit down and talk about
what they did when they started dating etc. evaluating
a relationship can be very fulfilling to any relationship
to see where it is headed and this is the time when you might
see problems that could come up in the ...
2 Comments, 296 Views,
41 Votes
,5.43 Score
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Nonresponse to article from the women 12/20/2004
I have been reading articles and have gained alot of good
insight from this category. Thanks everyone. However,
I am curious as to why no woman responded to chappyfu....'s
article of 10/31/04. Could it be that women only want what
they can't have as the saying goes. I feel this was a
good question and was surprised no women responded. I mean
no offense but is it that the nice guy finishes ...
1 Comments, 176 Views,
23 Votes
,2.78 Score
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What to say, and not to say, in your profile 12/18/2004
I read so many profiles that turn me off that I thought I'd
give some advise. First, be truthful, even if it might turn
some people off. Do not lie about your age, weight, or marital/
relationship status. The "do unto others"
idea applies here; you expect that when you read a profile,
the information is correct, so be that in your profile.
Second, don't be too blatent. We all know that ...
16 Comments, 4001 Views,
609 Votes
,4.14 Score
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Think about what you want first!!! 12/17/2004
OK, it seems like this should be common sense, but nobody
seems to get it. To build a good relationship, you need to
think about what you want out of the relationship and use
that in deciding where to go. If what you want is a no-strings
sexual relationship, then having sex the first time you
meet is no problem. But if you're looking for a long-term,
serious romantic relationship, then ...
4 Comments, 89 Views,
33 Votes
,2.96 Score
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Multi dimensional relationships? 12/16/2004
Hi All:
<br>
OK, you come on here to AdultFriendFinder, and you find that perfect match,
or at least one that is being a great deal of fun. You like
the people you are playing with...in our case, lets say
a couple. At almost 50, I very clearly understand the dynamics
of a couple, a duet walking hand in hand through life, and
know my way from point A to point B in building and maintaining
that ...
5 Comments, 139 Views,
51 Votes
,3.75 Score
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when to cross the bridge 12/12/2004
I've been involved with a sexy, beautiful, intelligent
woman now for about 3 weeks. I'm and intellectually
and physically attracted to her and want to build a relationship.
The sex has been great and we really seem to have chemistry.
However, I've always been involved in the lifestyle
and really don't see that ending. I think she'd
be interested in exploring more of her fantasys if I ...
2 Comments, 206 Views,
38 Votes
,3.32 Score
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What Women Prefer 12/8/2004
I have no intention of speaking for all women here, but do
want to say some things to gentlemen who are starting relationships.
Please understand that your woman is different from all
other women. She is a unique individual who has preferences,
special spots, things that she likes. If you feel that you
need to ask what she likes, please ask her - she is the one
who knows. Many men ask here, ...
10 Comments, 5878 Views,
504 Votes
,4.00 Score
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what sex is to men 12/8/2004
Well being a man myself I know. What I am going to write here
is so true and to the hart that most men out there will not
like it and or say that it is not true. What fuels a mans sex
drive, more so then just having an orgasim is the feeling
of acceptance trust, and being liked/loved that he gets
when having sex. To a man it is the ultimate desplay he can
get from the other person.
6 Comments, 363 Views,
56 Votes
,4.19 Score
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AdultFriendFinder Can Be Tough 12/8/2004
AdultFriendFinder can be really tough. I am a young, pretty good looking
married guy looking to fufill some fanasies here and no
matter how nice, patient or polite I am either no one is interested
(so it seems) or I get blasted for what I am trying to do here.
Having your opinion is fine, but to each his own... if I am
understanding of your decision to not be interested people
here should try to be ...
13 Comments, 300 Views,
43 Votes
,4.14 Score
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Why does Sex have to be so much work ? 12/6/2004
It seems to me that a lot of work must go into building a relationship.
If all we wanted was sex would it be easier? Would we get responses
to our inquires from women? I don"t know but maybe
you do. Let me know.
0 Comments, 72 Views,
18 Votes
,2.58 Score
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is there a standard membership stigma? 12/6/2004
i don't know if this is an issue that actually concerns
anyone but i am curious if the gold and sver members look
at the standard members as an identified group or if the
individual profiles are the only real criteria that most
look at and base their interets on?
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as a standard member, i am often unable to open profiles
or see pictures and can not invite to my network so ...
4 Comments, 67 Views,
24 Votes
,3.70 Score
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